5.31.2005
pump up the jam
well, hedonism II is officially over. unlike last year's hedonism 2004, this is one is not-so-well documented, and that's probably a good thing. night one is here. this year was totally unexpected yet it came together spectacularly! i am surprisingly well-rested and running on a decent level of serotonin. funny, that.

friday featured weights with christopher and a cookout for four at brad and joel's. four turned into twenty and the night was spent drinking j. lohr and gazing at the downtown skyline. grilled chicken on spinach salad with a simple vinaigrette was the perfect meal.

i was in full Saturday Mode and kicked it at the gym and managed to get the entire house pressure washed. what a pain in the ass that was. my neighbor, the garden editor, invited me over for cocktails and yard-humiliation. geez, could his 1/4 acre be more beautiful!? but my little plot has full sun and i can grow agapanthus and herbs, which he cannot. so there. i made my way to beverly and hung with todd and brad, et al. we ventured on to the heretic for a spin. the crowd was one of everything, including eden, the overweight hand clapper. neat. the music was marginally fun and we lasted till about 2:30. i opted for bed and the rest went on for afterhours, which of course was The Best Ever.

sunday i awoke to a gentle, steady, dripping rain. i read the paper on the porch, ate bacon and eggs and took gus for his long, sunday walk. i straightened the house, ran an errand or two, made self-love and read for an hour or so till klyph and steve arrived. we drank on the porch and danced and waited for eriK to arrive. somehow the pat benatar cd was found and we each proceeded to do our favorite pat song, as sung by cher. good times. it continued to rain but we made our way to shout anyway. it was a ghost town but fun nonetheless. they should have called it the "we love dj jt hour." i flirted shamelessly with a cute attorney with big hands and a couple of others from my past. we thought it wise to go from there to blake's. it was off the hook, all the gays seeking shelter from the rain. kelli entertained the varsity gays and i drooled over a certain attached boy who shall remain nameless. i harassed the aforementioned attorney and then we were back at my house, pat benatar blaring. it all becomes a somewhat of a blur at this point...i recall being the designated driver to the abbey (all of three blocks) and i recall paying a ridiculous amount of money to get in. one would think for that money they'd use an stamping ink that washes off...we were unexpected so our arrival on the dance floor was met with stares of wonder and disbelief, they being significantly "happier" than we. the rest of the night was like old times, everyone in a great mood, decent music, lots of socializing, lots of dance floor antics.

and monday. ah, rainy days and mondays....thank the budha for jeffrey and his cook-out. anthony and kelli spent the day making and cooking racks of ribs. the 10 or so of us lounged on the covered porch, drinking beer and rehashing the weekend. the laughter was easy. the deej entertained with his imitations of everyone's dance style and i did my new stevie nicks-in-shrouds-of-chiffon move. it was a gorgeous afternoon, despite the rain. i was in bed by 8 and slept fitfully.

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5.27.2005
after the gold rush
lots to report on it seems. joelene is back in town and for that, we celebrated with the gays at halo. i know, put on your surprise faces. but it was a treat being all up in there with my homeboy. cut to the gym, where i ran into ___. yes, his name escapes me but i've had the hots for him for, oh, like, 8 years. he practically tripped over himself to say hi. awww, bless your heart (and thanks for the ego boost). worked the hell out of my legs and am afraid of the pain that i know lurks in my glutes and quads. in my continuing saga of poor gym etiquette, i was joking with The Assistant about being on steroids (as he's gone from 0 to 60 in no time flat, if you know what i mean). suddenly the laughter stopped. oops. i'll have to ask his ex, who by the way, is the source of previously mentioned, wrongly directed, scatalogical petty gossip.

dinner report: world's largest organic chicken breast baked with "cajun" seasoning and honey; simple spinach salad with bleu cheese, lemon juice and cracked pepper.

and for desert, we have the long weekend. while i don't think it'll be like last year's Hedonism I, it promises to be good. no one has any plans which in my neighborhood spells trouble.

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5.26.2005
clang clang clang went the trolley
if you've ever wondered what kind of primordial mix produced eriK, the answer lies just outside atlanta's perimeter. eriK, being one of razor sharp wit (with which he'll not hesitate to cut you), most always maintains the upper hand in our group's constant verbal sparring. i mean, he's tough to beat! well kiddies, the veil was lifted last night and i actually think i saw beads of sweat on his upper lip as his mother, father and sister played mental keep-away from poor, sweet, simpleton eriK. it was a most delightful evening at his folks', one i'll not soon forget. the apple has not fallen far from the tree -- at all.

my boss is in town and all is right with the world. i sit at the end of a lonely hall since she's moved to new york...but the last two days have her deep phone voice seeping through the wall and her occasional "johnbrown!" beckoning me with questions i already know the answer to. i'm a lucky dog to have this kind of work relationship.

rush limbaugh's girlfriend is just now coming into the office.

flippy has a new blog! check him out.

not sure if my cardio mates appreciated the red wine fumes this morning....oh well, that's life. pity.

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5.25.2005
paris
let me just say for the record how much i LOVE paris hilton

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ask me
questions i've asked myself this morning:
* how can anyone be in a bad mood on morning like this?
* does one really have to deadhead stella d'oros?
* why are you in my lane?
* where's the greyhound on the other side gonna go?
* jetta vs. greyhound, who wins?
* why does your ass look so good, mr. pushing-40-babyface-married-business-man-in-dress-pants?
* do you really like those sausage, egg and cheese croisants?
* is that why your ass is so round?
* could he be the antithesis of me?
* why does that dyke have a W sticker on her cherokee?
* is it the camera or the usb cable that's fucked up?

not that y'all care...

the gym last night was full of my favorites. another question, but from last night, is how did chris' stomach get so damn sexy and why didn't i latch on to that when i had the chance?

dinner sucked for the second night in a row. i burned the butter that the flounder was to be cooked in and adding lemon juice only made the situation worse. the fava beans in butter and lemon were good, though. mmmm, butter. and thankfully, there was not much wine left.

it's 10 and i've done absolutely nothing productive.

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5.24.2005
you could tell i was no debutante
last night the city was strangely quiet and a cool breeze blew through the house. the kitchen was hot from the oven and i could hear the wind chimes from next door. i was marginally interested in my dinner, more focused on two days of unread papers. i stepped out on the deck and the light and shadows played as if giant flashlights were shining down tunnels of green leaves and gray clouds. i re-evaluated my construction plans, determined they were fine and continued reading.

my dreams were of bloggers. one in particular, the one in san francisco i don't know. i've been at this long enough to know that blog crushes go absolutely nowhere. and in that measure, they're perfectly safe. so i'll ride it out and just enjoy the fantasy.

this morning's air was warm and dry and crystal clear. the steam whistle at georgia tech was unusually loud, traveling unimpeeded through the clean air, across the interstate, through peachtree street's burgeoning towers and down into the valley of midtown. 5 till and time to move.

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5.23.2005
private idaho
our jaunt up to lake rabun was a great escape from the regular weekend in the city. 7 of us in a big lake house, enjoying each other, the misty cool mountain weather and more alcohol than should really be allowed. we took turns cooking and my turn was, i think, pretty much a disaster. i set out to make that seemingly easy southern classic, shrimp and grits. well, i scorched the grits and the shrimp sauce was runny. at least the watermellon salad was good. oh well, we know what NOT to make next time.

mountain cabin decorating note: the wooden-canoe-suspended-in-the-living-room look is officially cliche'. and never, ever, think that kuntry ducks and ruffles is acceptable.

my venture to shout yesterday was probably ill-timed, but cappy spun a good set and i got to chat with the varsity gays. not that i remember much more than that.

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5.20.2005
just one of those things
i slept for shit last night. woke up at 12:39, naked, sweating and blood pounding in my ears. sleeping under the down comforter in the 75 degree night air did not help. nor did sleeping right on the mattress pad. too tired to wait for the laundry to dry, i simply crashed. gus came in at 5:47, 13 mintues before the alarm. i know it's only a few minutes, but i always feel so robbed when that happens.

this weekend should be fun. the 'gang' is taking trey up to lake rabun for his 40th. chicken is my oldest (gay) friend. i remember all-too-well the day he showed up at my dorm with his smiths, big audio dynamite and erasure albums to spin tunes with my roommate. we've been friends ever since.

if any of y'all really think the current senate fight is about fillibustering or being fair, think again. it's about appointing judges who will overturn the "liberal agenda." that very much includes gay rights, abortion rights, environmental protection, privacy rights, seperation of church and state...the list goes on and on. it's nothing short of revolutionary. mark my words.

and have a nice weekend.

JTBjr
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5.19.2005
spin, spin
terry schiavo's parents are on cnn, after having "met" the pope amoung the masses at st. peter's. her father missed nary a chance to plug "terry's" foundation, which is dedicated to stopping euthanasia of any type. nice of them give her barely 2 months to rest in peace... even in death they can't let her find calm. they have no shame.

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5.18.2005
ba ba ba, ba ba ba dadada
this is about 30 years too late. get a life!

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bette davis eyes


not that i'm ready or anything...

these are a few of my favorite things:
magazines
* the new yorker - consistently good writing
* elle decor - best editing ever
* W - like people, vanity fair and vogue all in one

places
* ptown - duh
* the pantheon, rome
* my front porch - good times

food
* asparagus
* tuna - fresh, seared, raw, whatever
* cheese

tis a slow blog day...

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5.17.2005
clean up for christmas
on the domestic front, frank, the itinerate contractor, came by last night to give me the low down on kitchen renovations. as expected, he was absolutely reasonable -- to the point of perhaps the tiniest bit of cheapwad guilt on my part. but certainly not enough to stop me from moving forward. the only downside, of course, is that it'll be this time next year before the first egg is fried in a Kitchen By Frank. trust me on this one. so, i think some combination of me/frank/real professionals is what's gonna transpire. tonight, the bearded architect returns.

dinner report: pan sauteed flounder in butter and lemon juice, cold succotash.

is it wrong to be totally ambivilent about the current state of u.s. affairs? that fucker is still in the white house and the religious right is about to stage a coup d'etat and cnn's lead story is More Hurricanes This Summer! maybe there's a car chase to cover, too.

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5.16.2005
goin' back to cali


damn, what a weekend. here are the salient points:
* patty griffin Was. Amazing. unbelievable. i am so in love. trust.
* i had a revelation about my kitchen layout over a gin and tonic. full speed ahead.
* christopher and i giggled like school girls saturday morning at the gym. all of his (and my) favorites were there. my ego was sufficiently stoked, thankyouverymuch.
* the fine folks down at super sod are not the brightest (or the most friendly) bulbs in the pack. of course, selling turf isn't exactly rocket science.
* backyard: done.
* the gay bike gang stopped by saturday afternoon. i'm beginning to enjoy their little unannounced saturday-stop-and-have-a-beer-and-a-toke visits. at least the beer part anyway.
* marjorie and michael's wedding was off the hook. i'm convinced that the older the couple, the better the wedding. screw 25-year olds and 36 bridesmaids and the country club. i'll take jewish vows in an antique mall with pre-nuptual cocktail hour for 500, alex.
* note to self: hardwood floors do not make good tumbling mats. nor do wicker love seats make good beds.
* hair of the dog is not necessarily a bad thing.
* the news from ptown is excellent! congrats b and j!
* nothing purchased at lakewood except beer.
* made a wonderful succotash of asparagus, fresh corn from the cob, early peas, spring onion, orange bell pepper and fava beans.
* new houses, everyone's getting one.
* blakes, zocalo, blakes, bed. blech.

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5.13.2005
man over
the gays were all up in there last night. in fact, i haven't seen a crowd like that in a couple of years. there was a "fashion" show featuring lots of hotties, male and female. note to prospective runway denizens: like a famous philosopher once said, you better work! i have never seen such lame strutting in all my life. if you got it, flaunt it! geez.

anyway...from that to patty griffin tonight is enough to make your gay-ass head spin like a top. so to speak.

on tap for the weekend: the aforementioned guitar music, some sod, a wedding and a trip to lakewood to scour the junk antiques for garden ornaments.

JTBjr
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5.12.2005
dear john
at last, new music!
aimee mann -- the forgotten arm. classic aimee, but with a tale to tell. definitely will grow on me.
ben watt -- buzzin' fly, vol. II. groove-a-licious. a tad dark like all his mixing, but still great.
dj jt -- TBD. (ahem!)

anyway, i am totally, 100% obsessed with redoing my kitchen. the latest plan i drew involved moving walls, opening up exteriors and billions in custom cabinets. budget? what budget...

y'all, all i want to do is have a nice, bright space in which to cook and entertain without everyone on top of each other, is that too much to ask?

today is spa day, featuring really, really short hair and seersucker pants. forecast high of 87.

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5.11.2005
time after time
we ventured to the fox to see patti corn lu-pone last night. lemme just say, Not My Cup Of Tea. i shoulda known by the crowd: overweight homos in dockers and "fancy" shirts and overweight stars on broadway season ticket holders in dockers and "fancy" shirts. not my cup of tea basically for two reasons: 1 - i was raised knowing that talking about yourself for any extended period of time is considered rude, much less singing about yourself and all your warts for two hours! and 2 - anyone that redoes "another auld lang syne" by dan folgerberg (one of the worst songs ever written, btw) just can't be taken seriously.

but the rest of the night was a study in midtown atlanta-ness. we walked to mary mac's tea room for hard liquor drinks and a classic southern dinner. then up the street to the fox where we ran into local celebs richie and mitchell on the street. afterward, we took refuge from the docker-clad masses and had a smart nightcap at bazzaar. we walked back to my house, narrowly escaping the thunderstorm and the singing panhandler. he was pretty good, though. i suggested he contact ms. lu-pone for an audition.

not be a total lupone-hater, i can say that we all were forced out of our comfort zones...me having to sit through that crap; cliff having to walk 8 blocks; steve having to remain somewhat sober; and eriK, well, i guess having to risk ridicule and embarassment by hanging out with the likes of us. funny how personal growth and enlightenment can be found in the strangest places. who knew?

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5.10.2005
jeremy engle
so i'm about to undertake the almost imperceivable job of redoing my kitchen. not just new this, new that, but completely gutting and rearranging and starting from scratch. i think i should be completely daunted, especially considering that just about everyone (everyone being professional kitchen remodellers and high-end contractors) has to told me it can't be done on my budget. but you know what, i think they're wrong. and while i should be scared or intimidated, i actually feel really challenged and excited about the prospect of pulling this thing off. we shall see.

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5.09.2005
dress me up
hey y'all, hey.

sorry for being incommunicado, but i've been busy. shall we list?
* got my yard on. planted the following: yellow daylillies, sage, 2 kinds of thyme, 3 kinds of oregano, basil, lavender, mint, 2 kinds of sedum and agapanthus, if only because i LOVE the name. and really, with its funky, gooselike buds and purple globular flowers, what's not to like?
* got cruised big-time friday morning at the gym . double hairpump for the ole ego! and lemme tell ya, he's smokin' hot. trust.
* lunch with eriK was delightful.
* i must be getting old...i can't sleep past 7:30. well, unless it's a work day, then no problem.
* brad's burger saturday night was about the best thing i've eaten in months.
* super power walk with the dog yesterday. got cruised again...geez.
* more yard work, featuring moving ill-placed plants.
* cooked out at su's, napped, spent a small fortune at whole foods (cause you need organic peanut butter and lemons, really), another dog walk, dined on summer succotash and red wine, crashed.
* kitchen update: way psyched with one contractor, bubble busted by another, remotivated by my friend michael's gorgeous, semi-self done kitchen. lesson, trust your instincts. next...

JTBjr
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5.05.2005
before today
i read some inane gay editorial yesterday about polyamorists (yeah, i had to look it up, too) and among other things, the author said that circles of gay friends are indeed our families. i've always taken that statement with a grain of salt, but yesterday it sure rang true. try as i may to be angry and make somebody "dead to me," it just didn't work. so we heard each other out, maybe not to the point of kissing and making up, but at least came to some resolve. just like a freakin' family. neat. judging by my friends, and if they are the tree from which this apple fell, i am truly a freak.

scary when you go to the gym and pick up a national magazine and know one writer and one person profiled within. i guess that's good, i dunno...

lazy man's dinner report: cold, sliced roast beef, field greens with sliced tomato and fresh avacado tossed in a red wine vinaigrette.

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5.03.2005
young, gifted, and black


it's a nina simone kind of day, y'all.

not much to report. funny how when you go into whole foods just to pick up a tuna steak, you end up leaving with 45 dollars worth of over-priced produce, organic crackers and a 10 dollar bottle of wine. i should buy stock in that place.

it was another impossibly gorgeous day yesterday. i played hookie for the afternoon, took a strange nap, worked in the yard. gus got a good walking and i read and re-read the stack of magazines on my counter. dinner was exceptional: seared tuna steak and steamed asparagus with butter, lemon and sea salt. lots of red wine and a cool breeze blowing through the house. a typical johnbrowndatenight.

phase II of my "i'm 40 and i'll have abs if it kills me" plan begins this week.

y'all be good. and remember to ask for the wolfman.

JTBjr
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5.02.2005
messin' with my reputation
ah, the weekend! it was great, fairly low-key and i avoided most of the debauchery. the reverend and mrs. were in town for meg's wedding (dad officiated). everything was perfect, right down to the tracks on the cd that guests received as a party gift. i played it over and over yesterday and cried tears of joy by myself on the porch. neat.

breakfast yesterday rocked. hands and ms. b came over for "dirty" scrambled eggs cooked in the cracklins of the apple pork and lamb mint sausages, cheddar cheese stone-ground grits, fruit salad with citrus suculents and english muffins. i'm not much happier than when i'm cooking breakfast in my kitchen accompanied by coffee, sarah vaughn and my mother. it doesn't get much better. well, maybe if mother were 5-10, italian, gravel-voiced and well-hung...

cut to Shout yesterday afternoon. after much pleading, flippy and i convinced eriK to join us on the fab 2nd floor patio. all the boys were out and lookin' good. the deej spun another great set (from what i can remember). (tr)ashley was there, acting as unofficial hostess -- i think she met every one of the gays. i bounced around and talked to no one, really. meanwhile, eriK got his drink on big time, batting his baby blues whenever he could. we ended up at bleak's and long story short, had to remove eriK's keys from his possesion -- something about falling down the stairs and an angry cop. eriK was not happy about it nor was he happy about the cab with counter-rotating rims that we poured him into. we sent him off with strict instructions to the cabbie not to return to midtown. well, drunky mcdrunkerton reappeared about a minute and a half later, having spent my twenty to go around the block. so flippy and i encouraged him to prostitute himself out for a ride home and it strangely worked. seeing my opportunity, i ditched the deej and ash and bolted in eriK's car for mi casa. while waiting on MY keys to show up (long story, don't ask), who comes back like a bad cold sore but eriK. neat. we finally got into the house and i locked him in the guest bedroom with a bottle of water, the dog and a jar of peanut butter and said good night. (just kidding, the dog slept with me). christlike, he resurrected himself this morning in time for coffee.

so the moral of this story is that no one got laid and i'm out twenty dollars.

JTBjr
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